Maggers has some valid points.
The diesel engine runs best at fixed load and speed. They are pretty useless at "clean" dynamics. I bet you have all seen on older diesel engines (no DPF) that they always spit soot/crap on start up, acceleration, load changes etc. Same for ships and other diesel powered stuff. e.g. British Rail Diesel Electric trains.
Once a diesel engine is up and running at a fixed load and RPM they can be made to be powerful, fuel efficient and relatively clean.
Take this all together and it becomes evident that use of diesel engines in cars not compatible with constant loads.
To get round this they have to add all sorts of management, filtering, recycling, etc. to *try* and make a dirty engine clean.
Bottom line. Burn a dirty unrefined fuel (diesel) then the engine has to do the refining. Burn a refined fuel (petrol, ethanol, LPG, etc) then engine and associated systems (DPF, EGR, etc.) have less to do.
I've only had the one modern diesel car/engine (Croma 2005 1.9 MultiJet) and whilst having owned and maintained Fiat for over 42 years the modern diesel setup is IMHO far to complex, has many scopes of potential failure (especially out of warranty) it is my opinion that unless you drive a company fleet car (their expense/they replace/they backup) or drive 50K to 100K miles per year then the modern diesel engine for private owners will be a tough decision if not a big gamble.
If you dig/google deep then you will find various articles about the ever increasing and potentially unaffordable cost in developing modern diesel engines to meet current and future emissions regulations.
Fleet owners will not be too bothered as they put miles on their vehicles and change them often (funded by the business). Private owners IMHO have a disproportionate funding situation to warrant driving a modern diesel car.
Having said this there will be some/many private owners who change their cars every 2 or three years and have the funds to do this. However they are/will be in the minority compared to those of us who look to own our vehicles long term (beyond 3 years from new).