The 3 door vs 5 door argument seems to come up pretty frequently in these forums and it all seems rather pointless when you consider they're really quite different cars.
The 5 door is a great practical family car. It looks great from all the front angles, especially when getting in/out of the car but admittedly not so good from the rear. It gives that high ride and feel of a mini-MPV which, whilst I didn't like so much at first, is something that grows on you. Get one with the skyport and it feels incredibly spacious. If you're likely to be carrying 3 or more people around most of the time (i.e a family) then it's a no contest win by the 5 door. Get the 5 door on the open road and it rockets along (at least the JTD does)
On the other hand if you're young & single then you'll more likely to be attracted to the sportier looking but less practical 3 door (I know I would - if I was
).
If I had to choose between a 3 or 5 door tomorrow - I'd choose the 5 door (I love mine) but everyone is different.
My point is that you should accept the car for what it is and not try to change it into something it isn't. As
KoArAnG says if you really want the 3 door then go for it (you might want to consider a JTD too) but don't let anyone convince you the 5 door is unwanted. Loads of members on here love theirs.