Ok yea I'll try that, but one question thought how the heck does the relay physically move and connect to complete the circuit because you dont actually push anything in the relay do you? so how does it actually activate when the horns pressed..?
In simple terms, a relay is an electromagnet (a coil of wire with a steel core) and a pair of contacts. Passing current through the coil causes the core to magnetise and attract another bit of metal called the armature which has the contacts mounted on it. The contacts complete the circuit that you are controlling. The reason for using a relay is primarily so that a small control current (for the coil) can control a large current (through the contacts).
Bigger versions of relays are sometimes called solenoids (e.g. the one inside a starter motor). In industry, big relays are called contactors.
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