Anyone know where i can get the abarth front lip from? Looked on ebay but couldnt find any?

A local Fiat dealer should be able to get you the genuine part.

If you don't mind crappy fibreglass copy cats then try abs motorsport.

https://www.fiatforum.com/punto-styling/30547-genuine-fiat-punto-abarth-body-kits-cheep-members.html

I got mine from them, think that's the cheapest that you will find a genuine new one.