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NO DONT DO IT 16 12.90%
GET IT OVER AN DONE WITH WHILST YOUR YOUNG 25 20.16%
ENJOY PRACTICEING FOR A WHILE LOL 44 35.48%
WHY AM I EVEN READING THIS ???:-S 39 31.45%
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Old 10-07-2009   #61
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many men feel that way, but few women.

ever wondered why you feel the need to shag everything that crosses your path, or why the first thing you think when you see a woman is whether or not you'd have sex with her?

its our nature. life only has one purpose, to survive. survival depends on reproduction. that is why our most powerful driving forces are 100% to do with reproduction. men want to donate sperm and support/protect women, women want to have kids.

like many men i dont want kids but i do want sex. i keep telling myself that i can ignore most other natural urges (murder, having sex with other women, stealing etc.) so i can surely ignore the urge to deliver sperm as well. the world's population is so huge than no single person needs to have kids to ensure the continuatioin of the species, in fact we are at the point where not having kids will give the species as a whole a better chance of survival.

however recent events in human behaviour cant change millions of years of natural instinct, so i am doomed to spend most of my time thinking about sex, and my partner is doomed to spend most of her time thinking about children.

fingers crossed i'm infertile, that would be the greatest blessing nature can give a man.

LOL! What a fantastic post. Can't give 'Thanks' in this section, though

Some of us have our powerful driving forces cross-wired (for some reason) so that there wouldn't be any reproduction anyway. We don't need to get as far as thinking about babies. Or if we did, it would just be an act with someone we liked, but weren't attracted to... would that be morally right?

I wonder if you've seen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3UXr...ture=rec-HM-r2 I don't agree with that but it does show that our efforts to reduce the world population might be futile.

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Age wise...nothing wrong with the ages you've both decided (or not) however which way it worked out, to have kids.

If you've both got jobs have enough money in the bank and arnt really at risk of losing your jobs then I dont see the problem in you trying for another.

Aslong as your both happy to do so..


Dont judge it just by the fact we are in recession, judge it by your personal situation.



But btw I wouldnt go with the decision of the forum voters :P

Whatever the decision good luck with it!

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Do what you want, at least you're not 14/15 like most of the parents where I live.
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well i have just turned 32, my eldest is 6 and then my middle daughter is 3 and my son is almost 2, we got married when i was 25 and my wife was 22, i was 26 when my daughter was born and my wife was 23, i always wanted to have kids young as my parents were in there 30's when they had me and in there 40's when they had my sister, one thing for sure is having them close together is hard on everything, fiancially, and mentally, i was very lucky to have made alot of money by the time i was 26 and was very finacially secure, but 6 years on with my wife not working for the whole 6 years and me not being able to make money from property like i did in my early 20's, i would say i am not fiancially secure anymore but know that in little over a year my middle daughter will be at school and my son will be in nursery.

yes i drive a 13 year old car but that is my choice and i also have a 4 year old mpv, with no finance and my mortgage is very small but i have no savings anymore over the years that has gone on all sorts of baby stuff but one thing is for sure i wouldn't change my situation for the world, and like has been said when i am 45 my kids will all be grown up and hopefully they will be taking me down the pub lol.

if you are both comfortable with it and have some money stashed are on a fixed rate mortgage and have job security then go for it you wont regret it!
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I've wanted babies ever since my sister was born when I was 15, I am now 23 and still childless, I was all ready to settle down when I was 19, and then had issues with my ovaries(ovarian cyst, lazer treatment etc) and was advised to wait at least two years before trying, I was then diagnosed with a brain tumour and have decided to wait for my 5 year all clear before starting a family. Also Mike wants to get up to Elite class cyclist and be a major before we have kids. That means we will be 28-30 before we have our first. But I don't think either of u will be ready before then. As an "army" couple we will be in the minority having children that late, most people have 10 yr old by the time they are 30.

You already have a child, a second child
doesn't make everything twice as expensive, and if you wait for the recession to end, you could be waiting a while.I think if you really need to be discussing this with your wife not us, but wanting a child is a painful experience. It feels like something is eating a way at you. As a woman you can't control your desire to have a child. It just hits you, like a massive brick wall. And then until you have a child, it eats away at you ....
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