thanks varesecrazy
my car seems to be behaving fine at the moment, after she had her battery changed at the garage (i had to have the AA out to her, after a stubborn refusal to start cause she said she is NOT going THAT way, after i had to park her for a few minutes then went back to her and she was like nope i want to go to bed NOW, goodnight
AA came out and jump started her and said there was a problem with her battery not holding power like it should, so she went to the garage the next day and they changed her battery, she been running fine since the battery change, no lights randomly coming on for no reason or anything now