are you saying the stilo got 163bhp and you only got 150bhp and you both used the exact same map and had the figures from the exact same rolling road on the same day? anything else is an unfair comparison.
if you take 2 identicle cars, they will have very different power outputs as standard. the manufacturer could quote 100bhp, but in reality one car could have 90bhp and the other could have 110bhp. most of them would be in the range of 96-104bhp but you never know what you get when you biy one, its a bit of a lottery. then over time the car's power will change depending on the health of it.
give 2 identicle cars the same remap and the difference in peak power may be larger or smaller than it was to begin with. there is no guaranteed increase in peak power from any given remap, it depends on so many things.
mostly the efficiency of your engine, which depends on the balance, the friction in the engine, the compression, etc etc. then you have transmission losses that are different on every car. the age of your car, the condition of it, how well serviced it has been, they can all have an impact.
then you need to consider the difference each rolling road will give, and the huge different possible depending on how the rolling road is used.
for example your 150bhp could be 170bhp on a different rolling road if you know how to fiddle it, similarly it could be 130bhp on another rolling road.
so as i originally said, unless you both used the exact same map and the exact same rolling road on the same day it is not possible to compare. and even if you did, a comparison is still not fair because each car is different.