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charlieboy

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right, i met a girl a while ago, about october, its just come about that we both admitted we like each other. so i asked if she wanted to go somewhere, answer was yes. but she had work and im off work at the mo. so i told her to choose a time and day that suited her

she still aint got back to me.....is that a bad thing?

judging that i had a constant streak of bad luck with girls i hoppe this one can change that

thnaks,charlie
 
You've made a mistake - never ask a girl to make a decision - they never can! You have to make the decision yourself, then accept the grief you'll get when it's not what she wanted. At that point you gett pissed off that she never told you what she wanted in the first place, even though you asked!
Don't worry about it too much. Suggest a date yourself, then see what her reaction is. (y)
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Just ask? Pop round when you know she'll be off and just ask - nothing ventured = nothing gained :idea:
But do it in person, don't 'phone and don't text to find out if she fancies going out......
 
charlieboy said:
getting to be a popular title

right, i met a girl a while ago, about october, its just come about that we both admitted we like each other. so i asked if she wanted to go somewhere, answer was yes. but she had work and im off work at the mo. so i told her to choose a time and day that suited her

she still aint got back to me.....is that a bad thing?

judging that i had a constant streak of bad luck with girls i hoppe this one can change that

thnaks,charlie

well wen did u talk about meeting up?, how long has it been since u had any contact wiv her, are u sure she's not waiting for u to contact her?

i will keep my fingers crossed for you fella(y)
 
charmed103 said:
well wen did u talk about meeting up?, how long has it been since u had any contact wiv her, are u sure she's not waiting for u to contact her?

i will keep my fingers crossed for you fella(y)
last tiem of contact.....bout 2pm today :D lol

it was last week when i said bou doing something this weekend. she said shed got two days off from learning next week so maybe that what she waiting for? but she said she was going cinemas to watch the 50bent movie (ugh poo film) so no doubt ill probably get invited to that

h - maybe i shouldve said how bout ....day at ...pm or ....day at...pm, next time i ask i try that

abz- i dont really wanna ask boutit incase it seem like i pressuring her into going kinda thing.... this girl is seriously the the best i ever met :worship: lol
charlie
 
charlieboy said:
last tiem of contact.....bout 2pm today :D lol

it was last week when i said bou doing something this weekend. she said shed got two days off from learning next week so maybe that what she waiting for? but she said she was going cinemas to watch the 50bent movie (ugh poo film) so no doubt ill probably get invited to that

h - maybe i shouldve said how bout ....day at ...pm or ....day at...pm, next time i ask i try that

abz- i dont really wanna ask boutit incase it seem like i pressuring her into going kinda thing.... this girl is seriously the the best i ever met :worship: lol
charlie

wow it sounds like this couldbe luuurrrrrvvvvvvvv, so sweet:yuck:

couldn't u make it seem like u were kinda busy n just wanted to no wen she was free so u could organise something???????

no pressure, n ur a happy charlie cos u got a date(y)
 
Grrr, I hate how girls do this. :bang: I pulled a bird in town a few days back, gave her a text day after to see if she wanted to go for a drink and she said she'd let me know when she's free. That was Tuesday, still heard nowt, and probably never will... :rolleyes:

Moral of the story? Unless she says yes first time, it ain't gonna happen.
 
JonnyBoy said:
Grrr, I hate how girls do this. :bang: I pulled a bird in town a few days back, gave her a text day after to see if she wanted to go for a drink and she said she'd let me know when she's free. That was Tuesday, still heard nowt, and probably never will... :rolleyes:

Moral of the story? Unless she says yes first time, it ain't gonna happen.

ah so young so bitter, never mind fella, next time mayb!!!!!
 
JonnyBoy said:
Grrr, I hate how girls do this. :bang: I pulled a bird in town a few days back, gave her a text day after to see if she wanted to go for a drink and she said she'd let me know when she's free. That was Tuesday, still heard nowt, and probably never will... :rolleyes:
You sure it wasn't the flirt divert number? :p
H
 
ABZSTILO said:
Fair point, hadn't really considered that :eek:

yeah sumtimes ppl don't look at things from all angles, then i guess it depends on wot is being looked at!!!!!

men canbe just as cagey as women wen it comes to matters of the heart, both sexes bitch bout each other messing round, mayb we just start being straight wiv each other???:mad:

but then that would be no fun:eek:
 
hmallett said:
You sure it wasn't the flirt divert number? :p
H

Oy! :p

Nah, she text me back a few times... plus when she put her number in my phone she asked me to ring her phone so she'd have mine.

Now wondering whether or not to text her again... is she just trying to see how interested I am, or will she think I'm some kind of stalker? aaargh... this whole dating thing confuses me :(
 
JonnyBoy said:
Oy! :p

Nah, she text me back a few times... plus when she put her number in my phone she asked me to ring her phone so she'd have mine.

Now wondering whether or not to text her again... is she just trying to see how interested I am, or will she think I'm some kind of stalker? aaargh... this whole dating thing confuses me :(

well who texted who last?????

mayb a friendly hi how r u text?
 
charmed103 said:
well who texted who last?????

mayb a friendly hi how r u text?

She text me last, several days back, saying she'd let me know when she's free to go out. Still waiting... :rolleyes:

btw, whoever started this thread, apologies for hijacking it! :eek:
 
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