I have the Blue and me adapater and I need to do the update to get it working, but I don't know how to do the update, any help would be appreciated

Do u not have ur manual it tell u in there. Ill look n let u know wen I get in from work later this evening

If you need a manual, check out the download section:

https://www.fiatforum.com/downloads.php?do=cat&id=21