could anyone put pictures up showing them taking off the front grille mines wont budge with brute force

This may help.

https://www.fiatforum.com/grande-punto/129414-help-front-upper-grill.html

get some grips on it, mine was tight

It does feel like you're going to pull the entire front off the car off at first - but they do come out eventually...

I just concentrated on getting one of the corners out, then the rest follows pretty quickly

Where can you get a de-badged front grille from?

FK automotive, about 115 euros + postage. That one will be the same style as the standard grilles. If you want a black mesh grill murker do a set and they can be got from www.absmotorsport.net

spot on fella.. next job after our GSR/Reddot visit