first engine off ignition on.
press button steering wheel with phone logo or SRC button
select settings
select pairing
then press SRC or phone logo button
the car will then display connection PIN number (make note of it)
bluetooth must be switched on for your phone
use your phone to search for divices, you should then see MY CAR
when prompted enter the PIN
you must then wait until it says connecting be patient
you will then be asked if you want to copy your phone book to the car
select ok if you want to
Some phone require you to send the address book by using your phones contacts menu system
you should now be able to make calls.
As for IPod connection you will need the Fiat interface kit part 50901536 - the usb point in the glovebox is for dealer use only - different to blue and me cars.
I hope this helps you