Hi 47643
The glow plug "relay" M015 takes a high current feed from Fuse F01 (50A) in the under-bonnet fuse box. This goes via a set of high current relay contacts to the four glow plugs. The relay coil is driven by an electronic circuit which has a low power feed from Fuse F11 (15A), an Earth connection and a Logic input from Pin 93 of the Engine Management M010 which goes low to tell the glow Plugs to switch on. The relay will click audibly when it turns on.
In addition, there is an inbuilt diagnostics electronic circuit which checks all 4 glow plug currents. If anything is deemed to be outside the acceptable range, the diagnostic output on Pin 9 will go high. This feeds Pin 52 of the Engine Management M010. Clearly, if any or all of the glow plugs are deliberately disconnected it will flag up a fault and you will get an error code logged and possibly also the glow plug light will flash for a period.
Similarly, if you take the relay out, the ECU will sense that the fault feedback line is out of range and this too will log a fault.
You should see continuity from four of the connectors on the relay socket to the four glow plug connectors on the plugs themselves:
Plug 1 (UK driver's side of engine) Brown wire. Pin 1 of Relay
Plug 2 Red wire Pin 2 of Relay
Plug 3 Yellow Wire Pin 3 of Relay
Plug 4 (Air Filter side of engine) Green Wire Pin 4 of Relay
If things are working properly, you should see about 1 volt less than battery voltage on each glow plug. They each draw something like 15 Amps to begin with, which drops after a few seconds as they heat up.
Your cold readings on the plugs of 1.2 ohms sound right to me. Unfortunately, it is possible for plugs to go faulty only when hot (as I know to my cost), so the light coming on and the error code may simply be reporting a genuine fault. The next step might be to get a specialist tester to check each glow plug under realistic conditions, i.e. with 11 volts applied.