ahh, let me answer those in sequence Kritip,
1.)front wing is indeed dented as shown, door is fine it's only scraped close to the arch but NOT dented, and also the side skirt on that side close to the arch is slightly scratched.
2.)drivers side seat has indeed been replaced completely (a nice chap in bedford drove down and sold me one, as he'd upgraded his interior to leather) so light is now out and has been reset. (it occured to me to do it this way, rather than replace the airbag which was in the region of £550, drivers seat cost me £80!!!)
3.)indeed insurance would have already known its status.
Overall, yeah it was worth it, it helps to have alot of people around you who have faith aswell. As for doing the work myself mmm, i wouldnt say that, but i sourced ALL of the parts myself which cut the cost down considerably (for example i got the front bumper for £40, fiat wanted £130)and they're all Original FIAT parts too!
Would i do it again!? i actually spoke about this last night, and right now i wouldnt, but in the future perhaps, depending on how readily available parts are and damage sustained really (just like if people are going to renovate a house for e.g). It does help that Fiat parts are a dime-a-dozen, though having said that the stilo isnt THAT popular..BUT...i may be in the market for a Grande Punto..
who knows what the future holds, but for now im content.
(FYI - the original project was supposed to be a Clio)