I assume that the switch in the Citroen just removes the 12volt supply to the reverse sensing unit, hardest part in the Fiat might be finding where it actually is, and if you disconnect it, will it upset the cars system and show a fault??? Also, if you're intending fitting your own towbar, it seems that bumper removal and some cutting is required if you have a look at the towbars for the 500L on Ebay, so it might be a bigger job than you bargained for. I looked at fitting one to my 500L, but as I tow only a small trailer maybe once or twice a year, and Wife's Hyundai is already towbar equipped, it seemed a pointless expense and possibly a fairly major job to fit, so have decided not to bother. Towbar fitting by specialists seems a pricey way to go, but unsurprising if you have to remove and cut the rear bumper it'll not be a 5 minute job, so maybe costs more in labour than materials. As Chips makes the point, the 500L is about as aerodynamic as a breeze block, so a family and a loaded bike trailer may be hard work, even with the 1.6 diesel.
Keith.