My and a friends stilo (mines the one parked on the road)

Few questions: Can i purchase the colour coded front and rear bumper strips seperate to a whole front bumper? Also i dont suppose anyone happens to know what colour my car is? i dont have a plaque under my bonnet to tell me the code.

Was planning on putting 17' blades sprayed a shiney but dark grey, but am so unhappy with how high it sits at the moment, so with that in mind i wanted some coilovers if anyone knows a good make that give a massive drop but arent gonna break the bank. Maybe someone's got some used ones knocking about?

Any suggestions welcomed with this car as its a clean slate at the moment