If 85 is live and you earth 86 the relay should click at the very least. How are you running the neg to the 86 pin? Ideally just lift the relay enough to slide the wire in.
So fan not coming on with temp sensor disconnected. Relay and fan all ok and runs by earthing the ecu earth pin on the relay.
Ecu is detecting the temp sensor disconnected , you can hear the idle changing.
Suspected no continuity between fan relay firing pin and ecu B8.
Dismantled fusebox but everything was clean and tight in the lower level of the box.
Pared back a little insulation on the grey wire at the ecu plug and found no continuity to the relay firing pin.
Started unwrapping the wires from the fusebox and where the harness goes over the top of the battery box there was a crushed and corroded grey wire.
So good to hear the fan cycling again.
pic?
Brendan W glad you got it fixed