why do you keep calling him shadeys mate?
Would you hit a woman? Men only please.
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Would you hit a woman? Men only please.
Exactly
My wife would be very unimpressed if I got arrested for punching someone. Plus I'd lose my job straight away. I have an absolutely 110% clear enhanced CRB check. I work with vulnerable young adults so i can't have anything even vaguely dodgy on there.
I don't think I've ever 'hit' someone...:chin: I try not too.
One hit Kills.
One hit Kills.
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i thought it was petty deliberate wind up too
Would only hit a woman if she was endangering my life or my relatives.
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I'll keep it simple for you.
So hitting a woman is completely wrong. No matter what the situation.
so despite smashing a womans skull Shadey happily came to his defense even in court.
So despite the formality of court he refers to him by his nik name.
So I keep calling him shadeys mate because I believe he is. Shadey is only distancing himself because he has realised how much of a scummy piece of crap this guy is.
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if you work with the same public for a long time you will know every ones nick name, that dont mean they are all your mates.
i would not, no... i am a totally non-violent person.. and ridiculously easy going :/
However.
back when i was in school i was beat up.. a lot. mostly lads but some times a few lasses would. resion why i was bully bait was the shear fact that i never defended myself and my thinking ways were very different.. i was a nerd (still am), without the glasses.
when i was in year 11, a few months before i left school. i was being picked on by this one lass in lesson. teacher went out to fetch something and this girl came over and for no resion what so ever started thumping me.. really hard too. well id had enough and i socked her one, blacking both her eyes as she fell, she fell against a table and so i was told really badly bruised her side. keeping in mind she was the same girl that had been picking on me for years. the school was well aware of this, they would send letters and what not to familys but after a few weeks it was back to me being picked on again. well needless to say i got in wayyyyy more trouble than the girl did and ofcorse no one in the class stuck up for me. (fear of sticking up for the nerd i guess) eventually things calmed down, but after that day i was never bullied again heh
however ever since i lived in fear that her older brother was always going to be out to get me. they were a pretty rough family, well known for ther..umm.. "ard"-ness.
(since i left school in 2004 to now ive been told that she has had 4 kids.. with 4 different blokes.)
i can only take so much for a time i guess (as could any man), but in shortness i would have to physically be being hit multiple times for me to actually do something about it.
i'd never hit anyone, its just not in my nature. especially a girl over some petty quarrel. drunk or not.
in terms of "man points" i am not much of a man (pink car, no girlfirend for 4 years, never go out etc). but i am enough of a man to say violence.. is never the answer.
However.
back when i was in school i was beat up.. a lot. mostly lads but some times a few lasses would. resion why i was bully bait was the shear fact that i never defended myself and my thinking ways were very different.. i was a nerd (still am), without the glasses.
when i was in year 11, a few months before i left school. i was being picked on by this one lass in lesson. teacher went out to fetch something and this girl came over and for no resion what so ever started thumping me.. really hard too. well id had enough and i socked her one, blacking both her eyes as she fell, she fell against a table and so i was told really badly bruised her side. keeping in mind she was the same girl that had been picking on me for years. the school was well aware of this, they would send letters and what not to familys but after a few weeks it was back to me being picked on again. well needless to say i got in wayyyyy more trouble than the girl did and ofcorse no one in the class stuck up for me. (fear of sticking up for the nerd i guess) eventually things calmed down, but after that day i was never bullied again heh
however ever since i lived in fear that her older brother was always going to be out to get me. they were a pretty rough family, well known for ther..umm.. "ard"-ness.
(since i left school in 2004 to now ive been told that she has had 4 kids.. with 4 different blokes.)
i can only take so much for a time i guess (as could any man), but in shortness i would have to physically be being hit multiple times for me to actually do something about it.
i'd never hit anyone, its just not in my nature. especially a girl over some petty quarrel. drunk or not.
in terms of "man points" i am not much of a man (pink car, no girlfirend for 4 years, never go out etc). but i am enough of a man to say violence.. is never the answer.
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My reply was 'yes'
Even so, I'm a totally non-violent person, gone thru life without ever ending up in a serious brawl or fight.
However, I can think of scenarios were I - other methods failing - could physically defend myself or my family.
Man or woman, makes no difference to me, if something I love and value is under an unprovoked attack I'll use the force necessary to defuse the situation.
More than sex I imagine my reaction would be based on size and possible weapons of the person. Smaller than me and I'd try something soft like blocking, pushing over etc., my size or bigger, I'd hit and I'd hit hard.
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Even so, I'm a totally non-violent person, gone thru life without ever ending up in a serious brawl or fight.
However, I can think of scenarios were I - other methods failing - could physically defend myself or my family.
Man or woman, makes no difference to me, if something I love and value is under an unprovoked attack I'll use the force necessary to defuse the situation.
More than sex I imagine my reaction would be based on size and possible weapons of the person. Smaller than me and I'd try something soft like blocking, pushing over etc., my size or bigger, I'd hit and I'd hit hard.
-Tazio
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Dave, its probably best he's left in his little fantasy world. If he wants to make sh*t up and make a fool of himself I happy to let him.
That addresses zero of the points made.
Fools are people who defend people for smashing womens skulls in. You always claim to be "better" than that.
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I honestly expected most men to say NO and I'm surprised by the amount that would to be honest.
How times change. :shrug:
I see Venters' point Shadey - you contradicted yourself by stating in your first post that under no circumstances is it OK, then proceeded to regale us with a story of a man who did exactly that and whose actions you defended.
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The night club was contacted by his Solicitor asking for CCTV evidence and the names of the door staff working that night. There was no CCTV footage outside, only inside so the night club gave his solicitor our names and addresses. We later received letters asking us to give evidence in court.
We were asked how many times he hit her, we both replied once. We were asked if she had hit him, we replied several times.
The persecution also asked questions, did he do anything to help her once he'd hit her, we replied no. Did he call 999 or ask for anyone else's help after he'd hit her, we replied no.
Even though we were asked by his solicitor to give evidence on his behalf the evidence we gave was in no way biased and IMO helped the prosecution as much as it helped his defense.
What he did was very wrong, but if you had seen the shock on his face when he realized what he'd done you'd know he never intended to cause her such injuries.
Maybe I'm wrong but I felt sorry for the guy when he was sentenced to 2 years. He wasn't a big guy, not even 6 feet tall, those 15 minutes messed up two lives. If I didn't think the way I do about man handling women perhaps I would have stopped her hitting him in the first place and prevented it going any further. He just stood there for 15 minutes letting her rain blows down on him, he didn't even try to block her blows or walk away. He just let her beat the hell out of him for some reason.
That's the exact thing I was talking about. It is not right for anyone to hit anyone else, other than in self defence and letting women just have the ability to do what they want just ends up making things worse.
So it's okay to smash a womans skull in if shes been nipping your head for 15 minutes, but under any other circumstances it's the worst possible thing you can do.
15 minutes is a very long time. You can almost walk a mile away from the situation in that time.
15 minutes is a very long time. You can almost walk a mile away from the situation in that time.
