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why has the fiat forum turned into an agony aunt forum?
maybe the sun would be interested in kicking Deidre out and just employing fiat forum members instead.
maybe the sun would be interested in kicking Deidre out and just employing fiat forum members instead.
why has the fiat forum turned into an agony aunt forum?
Im in, ill gladly hear stories from 16 year old who think they are lesbian and had their first girl on girl experience
The earlier (within reason) means you spend more time knowing them. I left it till I was 37 and now I wish things had been different.
If you wait until you can afford it then it might never happen. When you have kids you are the wealthiest people alive.
If you wait until you can afford it then it might never happen. When you have kids you are the wealthiest people alive.
I get the impression from people with older parents (mate who is 17 and has a 64 yr old dad) that its harder to talk about things as its harder to imagine they did the sort of things your talking about.. By 23 id like one.. just one thing missing...
dont like babies me, certainly couldnt eat a full one
am 37 now, and a step Dad, am just too selfish to have my own kids, I do feel sorry for my mum and dad though cos they are missing out on being grandparents
am 37 now, and a step Dad, am just too selfish to have my own kids, I do feel sorry for my mum and dad though cos they are missing out on being grandparents
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The mrs is pesturing me for another baby.I dont think its a good time being in a recession to try for another baby we both have good jobs the mrs works 3 days a week me full time we have a big 4 bedroom end tericed house(on a morage) so plenty of room for another we have a daughter whos 18mtns old allready. Im 24 n shes 21 do u think were to young for a big family????????
Tell her to go ******
. More than one is taking the p*** tbh.
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Two is a magic number.. Have an odd number of children (more than one) and you've got a middle child. Infact if you have 4 you just have 2 middle children! Stop at 2.
I've got the pair of house bricks on standby already.
I've got the pair of house bricks on standby already.
I'm 26 my wife is 25 we have been married for over 3 years (together nearly 8!) Home owner since I was 18. I found out a few weeks ago that I'm gonna be a dad June/July next year!
I know that we'd like another child soon after the first. We'll see how he No1 goes 1st.
Remember that you can never afford a child. You just manage somehow.
I know that we'd like another child soon after the first. We'll see how he No1 goes 1st.
Remember that you can never afford a child. You just manage somehow.
im the middle child aswell lol got 2 sisters,1 of 28 and 1 of 22.only person i counted on was ma dad lol
as for kids,i aint got any,not in a rush for 1 either..i cant afford myself at the mo so i defo wudnt be able to afford a baby.BUT the gf has 1 of previous relationship,now h'es 7 and she 25 and she not thought about having another 1 the whole time she was with her ex (7 years)..With us 3 tho,(me.gf an her boy)times are hard at mo so i dnt think we'll be having a baby between us untill were either financily secure OR when were both ready..were both still young and wana enjoy sum life..
as for kids,i aint got any,not in a rush for 1 either..i cant afford myself at the mo so i defo wudnt be able to afford a baby.BUT the gf has 1 of previous relationship,now h'es 7 and she 25 and she not thought about having another 1 the whole time she was with her ex (7 years)..With us 3 tho,(me.gf an her boy)times are hard at mo so i dnt think we'll be having a baby between us untill were either financily secure OR when were both ready..were both still young and wana enjoy sum life..
I've just thought of something that no-one has picked up on.
You could wait to have kids but many couples wait and then find out that they cant have more children for what ever reasons.
If you both seriously want to have more children then i'd seriously think about it now. If there are doubts then I wouldnt have one just for the sake of it.
Pre cancerous cells run all down the female side of my mums family. My nans had a hysterectomy, out of the three girls in the next generation two of them have also had to have hysterectomys in their early 30's. It makes me wonder if its likely to go through my generation too which makes me think at 20 I really havent got that much longer left if I want kids.
You could wait to have kids but many couples wait and then find out that they cant have more children for what ever reasons.
If you both seriously want to have more children then i'd seriously think about it now. If there are doubts then I wouldnt have one just for the sake of it.
Pre cancerous cells run all down the female side of my mums family. My nans had a hysterectomy, out of the three girls in the next generation two of them have also had to have hysterectomys in their early 30's. It makes me wonder if its likely to go through my generation too which makes me think at 20 I really havent got that much longer left if I want kids.
Im 47, wife is 42. Married her when she was 16 (her family said it wouldnt last, 2 fingers to them) 28 years next March. Had our 1st child in '85, 2nd in '86, short break (got a telly) 3rd '89, 4th '90 and last in '91. It was great having them grow up together but hard work. My advise, have them close together then enjoy the free time when they are grown up.
I think you should have them close together. Then you won't be out of the way of nappies, bottles, etc. and when they're close age-wise they're good company for each other.
With the first being 18 months now, number one will be well on their feet by the time number two comes along and *will enjoy helping mummy with the baby.
*That is, so long as number one doesn't try to give away number two, like the way my niece tried to give away my nephew... Lol
With the first being 18 months now, number one will be well on their feet by the time number two comes along and *will enjoy helping mummy with the baby.
*That is, so long as number one doesn't try to give away number two, like the way my niece tried to give away my nephew... Lol
i know exactly what you're saying, but personally i'd prefer to be a parent aged 35-60 rather than 20-45.
actually i'm fibbing i dont want kids at all i'd rather have the time and money to spend on myself. sadly my other half wants kids and i want sex so its bound to happen eventually.
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I am soooooooooooooooooooooooo broody I love babies i've always said i want a baby when im 21/22
I think maybe a bit early though wait until your other baby is 3 or something, Twins run in my dads side of family and he's a twin so im more than likely get two the first time
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I love babies i've always said i want a baby when im 21/22 I think maybe a bit early though wait until your other baby is 3 or something, Twins run in my dads side of family and he's a twin so im more than likely get two the first time
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speakingof twins..im a twin,had a twin sis but she didnt make it out of the hospital...and apparantly it runs in my mums side as there are twins in her family,(i have twin couisins) so all in all ive been told i could have twins when it comes to me having babies...But we'll see
i know exactly what you're saying, but personally i'd prefer to be a parent aged 35-60 rather than 20-45.
actually i'm fibbing i dont want kids at all i'd rather have the time and money to spend on myself. sadly my other half wants kids and i want sex so its bound to happen eventually.
i wouldnt have wanted one before i was in my 30's
i can handle it better now than i ever could in my 20's
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imo i hate seeing families too young as usually the mother isnt ready but same with families to old.
my parents are both in their 50s and literally we have nowt in common.
tbh its upto you but imo as you already have a kid (ignoring the recession) now is a good a time as any kids with too larger age gap are more hassle form what ive seen.
my parents are both in their 50s and literally we have nowt in common.
tbh its upto you but imo as you already have a kid (ignoring the recession) now is a good a time as any kids with too larger age gap are more hassle form what ive seen.
