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It breaks my heart to write this: but, in the next couple of months, I shall be putting Betty up for sale, once I've collected Pippin from VmanC -- which will probably be the last time I legally drive a car with a manual gearbox, before handing the keys over to my step-daughter. (Not being able to drive Pippin also hurts: but at least he will be parked on the drive, for the foreseeable future.) :(

As many of you know, my health is not good (as a result of being at the receiving end of three bad road traffic accidents); and, in 2006, I had major surgery on my neck (including the implanting of much titanium, to basically hold my head on to my body... -- oh, how I wish Panda doors were made of the same stuff...!) -- mainly to correct the loss of feeling and control of my left arm, and mobility problems with my left leg. :eek:

At the time, I had hoped that it would be many years before such symptoms would raise their ugly little heads again: which is why I was so keen on fulfilling one of my bucket list items, and get myself a perfect Panda. Betty's not quite there, yet: but she is unique; and I know Vernon will make her as good as she possibly can be for whoever takes her on. (y)

Anyhoo: the reason I am writing this is that, Thursday night (originating as an all-day 'normal' migraine, which started Wednesday...), I was taken to the hospital for the third time in a row with left-sided paralysis: caused by the damage to my neck (and probably as a result of my migraines becoming increasingly hemiplegic -- for which, because my migraines are physiological, and not inherited, there is no cure; and the preventative medicines I take have little success...). :mad:

After the first one -- which was initially diagnosed as a stroke (even though I knew it wasn't: as my dad had one (but is now, thankfully, recovered...)) -- I promised my GP (who is a saint) that I would stop driving manual-gearbox cars if these hemiplegic incidents became commonplace (which they now are...). Many GPs would have insisted that I give up driving all together -- but mine appreciates how much my independence means to me (and gives me a major reason to live); knows that I would never ignore the warning signs that precede my attacks; and would, therefore, never place myself, or anyone else, in any danger. Sooner or later, though, I probably will have to give up driving completely. (n)

Once Pippin is safely back home, I shall give in, and resign myself to a life of automatic gearboxes. I don't know whether or not I can legally change my licence, yet -- but, if I can, I will: to remove any temptation. There is also a strong likelihood that I will need another operation on my neck: which means no driving at all for a few months -- so, as much as I would like to resurrect Hal, or find a spotless, low-mileage Selecta, my Panda plans are on hold. :bang:

I will still be a regular on the Forum, living my Panda dreams vicariously; but will drop back from attending many meets or shows -- although am more than happy to carry on organizing the friendly rabble that is Midlands Italia! :rolleyes:

However, as I would rather Betty was adopted by someone I know, on here, please get in touch if you're at all interested; and make me a sensible offer. I may even throw in the bits and bobs I've bought for her along the way, that have not yet been fitted -- unless, of course, I decide to fit them to Pippin. I'm not interested at all in getting back the money I've spent on her -- I just want to make sure that she continues to be cherished, and gets driven. I see no point in leaving her festering in a barn, either: when all that will happen is that I get more attached to her, but cannot drive her.... :cry:

I shall probably be a bit invisible, the next few days. I am supposed to be taking it easy; and not driving because of the drugs needed to render me human and symmetrical again. And, although I knew this would happen one day (although hoped it would be never), I'm just pee'd off that it happened (a) before I really got to drive Betty for any period of time; and (b) the weekend of the Restoration Show at the NEC. Big apologies, therefore, to Palio, for not being around to help. :eek:

Look after yourselves. What passes for normal service will be resumed shortly.... :)
 
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It breaks my heart to write this: but, in the next couple of months, I shall be putting Betty up for sale, once I've collected Pippin from VmanC -- which will probably be the last time I legally drive a car with a manual gearbox, before handing the keys over to my step-daughter. (Not being able to drive Pippin also hurts: but at least he will be parked on the drive, for the foreseeable future.) :(

As many of you know, my health is not good (as a result of being at the receiving end of three bad road traffic accidents); and, in 2006, I had major surgery on my neck (including the implanting of much titanium, to basically hold my head on to my body... -- oh, how I wish Panda doors were made of the same stuff...!) -- mainly to correct the loss of feeling and control of my left arm, and mobility problems with my left leg. :eek:

At the time, I had hoped that it would be many years before such symptoms would raise their ugly little heads again: which is why I was so keen on fulfilling one of my bucket list items, and get myself a perfect Panda. Betty's not quite there, yet: but she is unique; and I know Vernon will make her as good as she possibly can be for whoever takes her on. (y)

Anyhoo: the reason I am writing this is that, Thursday night (originating as an all-day 'normal' migraine, which started Wednesday...), I was taken to the hospital for the third time in a row with left-sided paralysis: caused by the damage to my neck (and probably as a result of my migraines becoming increasingly hemiplegic -- for which, because my migraines are physiological, and not inherited, there is no cure; and the preventative medicines I take have little success...). :mad:

After the first one -- which was initially diagnosed as a stroke (even though I knew it wasn't: as my dad had one (but is now, thankfully, recovered...)) -- I promised my GP (who is a saint) that I would stop driving manual-gearbox cars if these hemiplegic incidents became commonplace (which they now are...). Many GPs would have insisted that I give up driving all together -- but mine appreciates how much my independence means to me (and gives me a major reason to live); knows that I would never ignore the warning signs that precede my attacks; and would, therefore, never place myself, or anyone else, in any danger. Sooner or later, though, I probably will have to give up driving completely. (n)

Once Pippin is safely back home, I shall give in, and resign myself to a life of automatic gearboxes. I don't know whether or not I can legally change my licence, yet -- but, if I can, I will: to remove any temptation. There is also a strong likelihood that I will need another operation on my neck: which means no driving at all for a few months -- so, as much as I would like to resurrect Hal, or find a spotless, low-mileage Selecta, my Panda plans are on hold. :bang:

I will still be a regular on the Forum, living my Panda dreams vicariously; but will drop back from attending many meets or shows -- although am more than happy to carry on organizing the friendly rabble that is Midlands Italia! :rolleyes:

However, as I would rather Betty was adopted by someone I know, on here, please get in touch if you're at all interested; and make me a sensible offer. I may even throw in the bits and bobs I've bought for her along the way, that have not yet been fitted -- unless, of course, I decide to fit them to Pippin. I'm not interested at all in getting back the money I've spent on her -- I just want to make sure that she continues to be cherished, and gets driven. I see no point in leaving her festering in a barn, either: when all that will happen is that I get more attached to her, but cannot drive her.... :cry:

I shall probably be a bit invisible, the next few days. I am supposed to be taking it easy; and not driving because of the drugs needed to render me human and symmetrical again. And, although I knew this would happen one day (although hoped it would be never), I'm just pee'd off that it happened (a) before I really got to drive Betty for any period of time; and (b) the weekend of the Restoration Show at the NEC. Big apologies, therefore, to Palio, for not being around to help. :eek:

Look after yourselves. What passes for normal service will be resumed shortly.... :)

I didn't know you were having this kind of a time dude :(

I'm sure someone on here will take Betty off your hands, wish it could be me but funds are tight till after my marriage.

Stay strong, we are all behind you and wishing you the best, hopefully your upcoming operation will improve things for you.
 
Awww really sorry to hear about your troubles homie :( I know exactly where your comming from - I'ld be devastated if I had to give up driving. I'ld really love to take on Betty, as you know I absolutely adore the mk1 pandas as I had one as my first car but sadly I have too much on with the troublesome two that I already own :(

I very much hope you'll find someone suitable who will take great care of her :)
 
Thanks, guys -- and for cheering me up, too! :worship:

I may need more metal in my neck (I'm going to get Robert Downey to play me in Titanium Man...!) before I can go 4x4-ing again, though -- although still have dreams of replacing the Punto with a nice auto off-roader...! :rolleyes:

And a Yorkshireman having a dig at a Scotsman re money -- priceless (and very funny)! :ROFLMAO:

Seriously, though, it's so good knowing that you lot are around, and so supportive; and I'm beginning to think that I will hang on to Hal, until I know how things work out.... I can't imagine any other car forum where I would consider pouring my heart out like this -- and that's all down to the good nature of the wonderful people who own wonderful little Italian boxes on wheels. :D

I'm really hoping that I can somehow get to Stanford Hall, as a last fling, with Pippin -- as it will be his birthday, that day. We shall see! :chin:

Thanks, everyone! (y)
 
So sorry to hear your news. I love driving my Bo and Vernon has big plans to improve him but I am willing to give him up for you. Speak to Vernon about it. There are plenty of other cars in our collection for me to drive! Good luck to you and your family. Hope we see you around soon!
 
Can only hope things get better for you Homeward as one of the more cheerful members of the forum you always make it a more pleasant place to be.

I don't know what you're currently taking or the actual cause but antiepilectic drugs like Topirimate, Gabapentin, or sodium valporate may be useful especially if the causes are neurological
Antidepressants beta blockers and Naids can all be very effective, and there may be a combination of the above which helps your situation, GPs are good but don't always know every drug that can be used in these situations and a little bit of research and a prompt in the right direction may be all you need.

be careful of surgery, too many pins plates and cages you might find your family weigh you in for scrap

seriously though hope you get sorted out :)
 
homeward I'm so so sorry to hear that Stephen. I knew you were really struggling, but hadn't realised things had got so bad. :(

We'll make sure you get along to some Panda stuff by hook or by crook, even if you can't drive one. Maybe you should grab Panda Mo 's kind offer & give up on Hal? :idea:

I don't think you should resign your manual licence (even if you can). You're sensible enough to realise you can't use it because of your health, but it's a useful safety net. There are occasional emergency situations where you might be glad you kept it - hopefully you'll never come across one, but it's nice to know the option to legally drive a manual is there.

Anyway, don't worry about the NEC & get back to the most normal you can manage soon (not talking about physically either) ;)
 
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homeward I'm so so sorry to hear that Stephen. I knew you were really struggling, but hadn't realised things had got so bad. :(

We'll make sure you get along to some Panda stuff by hook or by crook, even I'd you can't drive one. Maybe you should grab Panda Mo 's kind offer & give up on Hal? :idea:

I don't think you should resign your manual licence (even if you can). You're sensible enough to realise you can't use it because of your health, but it's a useful safety net. There are occasional emergency situations where you might be glad you kept it - hopefully you'll never come across one, but it's nice to know the option to legally drive a manual is there.

Anyway, don't worry & get back to the most normal you can manage soon (not talking about physically either) ;)

Beautifully put Gavin,:)

$tephen, I'm very sorry to hear it's so bad for you presently,
do feel free to scrounge a lift to events, as + when you feel the urge..;),

look after yourself, :hug:
charlie
 
Totally gutted for you Homey, while I can't take ownership of Betty at the moment (my wife would flip out ;) ) I would be willing to become a foster carer so you didn't have to see her every day but knew she was being cared for and you would still own her.
 
Stephen,
I am sorry to hear of your ongoing problems, I know only too well from personal experience what it means to lose the ability to do what you want when you want.
I sincerely hope you continue to keep the faith as in FIAT as we all need something to enjoy doing even if it hurts, or is mildly injurious to our health.
Maybe Dragonman could fit 50 airbags!
Then again from what I have heard they can nearly knock your head off, and by the sounds of it you are halfway there already.
Keep smiling, cos I know your posts make me smile.
All the best Dave
 
I am so sorry to hear this is happening to you and also sorry I have only just seen this thread. I have been Fiatless for a while but just bought a 1.9 GP so I am back and just catching up. With regard to the automatic V manual issue, having driven a Smart car for a year and now going back to a manual, I wish ALL cars were automatic, I keep stalling the damn thing when I forget about that clutch :eek: so automatic really does have its upsides!

Hang in there and stay positive, sending healing vibes your way xxxx
 
I too didn't realise things were that bad for you...you hide your problems very well which only goes to show your strength of character.

I really hope your going to stay around on here....in fact I insist on it!!....

Good luck mate.
 
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