Using a length of timber to prise the wishbone knuckle downwards makes life a lot easier, both when taking it all apart and when assembling. I use a piece of the CLS that Wickes sell, cut to about a metre long. Jamb the end of it under the subframe mounting bolt that's above the wishbone and skew it across the top face of the wishbone, keeping it as close to the bottom ball joint as you can (avoiding, as Marty says, the driveshaft boot). This will give you a lot more leverage and if you're as lacking in upper body strength as I am, a lot more control when aligning everything upon reassembly.
As for the driveshaft nut, yes it's 36mm and yes an impact socket and driver makes life SOOO much easier. I think I posted a piccy or two about that in an old thread. I struggled for ages with a bar and socket. Having given up, I bought a 240v impact driver and a slim impact socket. Had both driveshaft nuts off inside a couple of minutes.......