Well thank you for sharing your experience.
You are well on track and correct to go by your experience and not reports. Reports give a guide but every car will behave differently with every tyre. What counts is that you know, understand and feel what you have under your feet in your car.
As an example, the Goodyear NCT2 tyres (a long while ago) were reported, tested and classed as being top notch/best tyres. Sadly on our Strada Abarth they were the worst tyres we have ever driven on. Also in many circles/groups of user's they referred to them as Torvill & Dean tyres! skating, slip and sliding away in what ever direction they were pressed. A tyre to be well avoided at all costs.
In reality a good quality tyre (including cheaper/budget brands) built and tested to current international standards will work safely under all test criteria. Beyond this we get into like for like, tit for tat testing, views, opinions etc. etc.
To support the point often top make tyre manufacturers have refused to enter their top tyres into certain magazine/field tests because they know that, for example, on a Ferarri F40 their tyre is unbeatable but on a Porsch Carrera GT it is a heap of junk in comparrison to other makes.
In addition ultimate grip and traction can be beaten by progressive handling, feedback and zoned warnings (aka transition phases with adequate driver feedback).
F1 is a good place to view and understand how the same tyres can perform badly and excellently on even the same cars within the same team.
For me, Pirelli tyres have always for both road and track use ticked all my major boxes. I've also driven hard other makes from Semperit, ESSO own brand (80s tyres), Fulda, Goodyear, Michelin, Bridgestone, Yokohama, Toyo, Kumho to mention but a few. Non of these other tyres (except Goodyear NCT2) have disappointed me to the point of wanting my money back or putting me in danger of lack of security.
Everyone has been different, some better, some worse.
As with all things in life you mileage may vary.